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Away We Go

AWAY WE GO

The life as you know is going to end. That is what a lot of people told me when I'd gave them the news that I was pregnant. I understand the challenges of a new-being in my life and my husband's but this doesn't mean I could embrace it easly and I think that is impossible, it is not something that you could be born ready. As in most of experienced, one learns as one lives through it.

Long waiting is coming to an end. A friend of mine asked me if I am ready and I frankly answered 'NO' and she said that is the best answer. No matter how much you think you are prepared when you face the situation you realize you haven't been quite ready. This is all right though, isn'it?

I was lucky that I had couple of pregnant friends around me starting from the begining. We shared a lot of stuff and of course understood each other. It helped me a lot. Both of them gave birth in last ten days. One to a baby girl named Elif Camille, and the other to a baby boy named Miko Hudson. I held Miko the other day at the hospital and I suddenly realized how much I wanted to hold mine as soon as possible. The striking truth was that I thought I was so cool about this and waiting patiently but didn't feel like it after I left the hospital. I sat down somewhere and thought for a while. Even though not feeling ready this doesn't stop me from wanting it. Well one thing for sure, don't try to be the best mother, try to do your best. This philosopy relaxes me a lot cause I know I will try my best but we will see the results.

The other day we were at the video store, Mehmet wanted to get a movie that he had been waiting to see with me. Of course I got curious. 'Away We Go' was about a couple who were expecting a baby and had other issues toward life. Very humanistic. I easly understood their pursuits. They needed to make sure that life wasn't going to end because they were having a child but enrich. She had a family and lost them suddenly so she was also looking for a family to bring up her child amongst. This was the pursuit of love, desperatly.

Isn't the main reason we live, we live to love and to be loved.

Altough the love between the guy and the girl was a bit awkward, somehow I found some resemblance to ours with Mehmet and concerns that they had when the baby will born were alike. At one point it is like watching yourself in a movie so I definitly recommend this movie to the couples who are expecting or considering or just had a baby.

Mehmet'ten yeni blog

Mehmet'ten yeni bir blog.

Mehmet'in Amerika'da yaptığı haberleri arasından kendi seçtiği ve farklı dosyalarında olduğu yeni blogu. Takibinize sunulur...

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